When
I was still unmarried, I used to do things on my own, go to places on my own,
eat whatever I want, blurt out my ideas to myself, and think only for my own
interest. There were just too many of the stuffs that I used to do
independently. I was only accountable to myself. Just I, me, and myself. I
never had to worry of somebody getting hurt if I do this or that or not do this
or that. But now that I am married, everything has changed.
Now,
don’t get me wrong. This article is not about regretting getting married. In
fact, this is supposed to highlight the benefits of having a husband as the
title reflects.
For
a newly married bride like me, having a husband is heaven as there is someone
to cuddle with at night in bed. There is someone to whisper sweet nothings in
my ears to ease away the blues of the day. There is someone to assure me that
there will be another tomorrow after a long haggard day from work. There is
someone to cook my meals as I never really cook. There is someone to massage my
foot. There is someone to compliment my “early morning face.”
There
is someone to give me allowance for the week. There is someone to listen to my endless
rants of blah-blah-blahs. There is someone like a handyman to fix things for
me. There is someone to hand me my things. There is someone to carry things for
me. There is just someone in everything.
And
that someone is not just somebody. He is my husband, a gift from God, to be my
partner in every venture I would take in life. A husband who shall love me
unconditionally. A husband who shall gently reprimand me for my stubborn ways.
A husband who shall serve as my refuge in times of trials. A husband to temper
my moods. I guess, these are just among the many perks of having a husband. So,
for the single ladies out there what are you waiting for? GO, grab yourself a
husband.(lols)
ha ! ha ! lols. wish to meet him soon :) regards
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